FAQ's
Planning a wedding comes with plenty of questions — and that’s completely normal. Choosing your celebrant is about more than paperwork — it’s about feeling comfortable, supported and understood.
From form-filling and vows to music, timing and nerves — there’s so much to think about.
Here are the answers to the things couples most often ask as they plan their ceremony.
Do we have to write our own vows?
Not at all. Some couples love writing their own vows, others prefer something simple, and many choose a mix of both. I can help you write your vows, offer prompts, or provide beautiful alternatives if writing feels daunting. There’s no “right” way — just what feels right for you.
What parts of the ceremony are legally required?
In Australia, there are just a few legal elements I must include — the legal wording, the time of lodging your NOIM (Notice of Intended Marriage) , and signing the marriage documents. Everything else is completely flexible and can be shaped to reflect you as a couple.
How involved are you in creating our ceremony?
As involved as you’d like me to be. I’ll guide you through the process, get to know your story, and write a ceremony that feels natural, warm and personal. You’ll have the chance to review everything before the day if you wish — or you may prefer to keep a little surprise for the moment itself.
We’re nervous about standing in front of people. Can you help?
Absolutely. Many couples feel the same way. I keep my ceremonies relaxed, calm and supportive, and I’ll gently guide you through every moment, so you never feel unsure about what’s happening next.
How long does a ceremony usually last?
Most ceremonies are around 20–25 minutes, though this can be adjusted to suit you. I believe in ceremonies that feel meaningful, not long-winded.
Do you help with music and sound?
Yes. I have my production off-sider who comes along to my ceremonies to take care of your ceremony music and sound, so everything runs smoothly on the day. From pre-ceremony music and the aisle song to the signing and recessional, we ensure your music is played at the right moments and at the right volume — clear, calm and stress-free.
Can we include family members, children or pets?
Yes — and I love when couples do. Whether it’s children, stepchildren, grandparents, pets, or special people who are no longer with us, we can include them in a way that feels natural and respectful.
Will you tell us when to walk in?
Yes. On the day, we’ll guide you and your bridal party through the process and clearly let everyone know when and where to enter. We work closely with your music and timing so there’s no guesswork — you can simply focus on the moment and enjoy it.
Do you offer a rehearsal before the wedding?
Yes, of course. A rehearsal can be arranged before your wedding day to help ease nerves, walk through the ceremony step-by-step, and answer any last questions. It’s a great way for everyone to feel relaxed, confident and ready — especially for couples who prefer to know exactly what to expect.
Do you also offer DJ and MC services?
Yes. Celebrant couples are welcome to ask about our DJ and MC services, which can be added to your day if you’re looking for a seamless, familiar faces from ceremony through to reception. It’s a relaxed, well-organised option that many couples love for continuity and ease.
When should we book you?
As soon as you have your date. Popular dates fill quickly, especially weekends. Once booked, I’ll guide you through everything step-by-step so the process feels easy and enjoyable.
What happens after the ceremony?
I lodge your marriage paperwork and ensure everything is handled correctly. Your official marriage certificate is then issued by Births, Deaths & Marriages.​
Still have questions?
If you’re feeling excited, a little nervous, or simply unsure where to start — that’s completely normal. I’m always happy to chat, answer questions, or talk through your ideas with no pressure at all. Choosing your celebrant should feel easy, comfortable and right — and I’d love to see if I’m the right fit for you